Trusting yourself
Monday, January 25th, 2010With most of us, decisions come, decisions go—we make them and deal with the consequences when we have to. But we all make decisions about our lives, financial and otherwise, all the time:
What kind of a car do I think I should buy?
When do I think I should buy it?
Where should I send my child to school?
What color should I paint the bedroom?
Do I really want to go to dinner at ,y favorite restaurant on Saturday night, with such a busy week ahead and my proposal due at work on Monday?
Is such-and-such an issue worth the fight it’s going to cause if I bring it up with my partner?
Might this or that stock that I keep reading about be a good stock to buy?
Such decisions come up every day, and always that inner voice is there to guide us in making them wisely—if we let that voice have its say.
When these decisions come up, I am asking you now to start keeping track of them: What was the decision that had to be made?
What did your inner voice, your first instinctual response, tell you to do?
What did you actually do?
Please write down the answers and keep them wherever you keep the monthly bills. Now see how the decisions played themselves out, depending on whether or not you followed your voice.
Should you have painted your bedroom that ivory, which was your first impulse, instead of the yellow?
Should you have bought a new car when you knew you should have, before the old one collapsed for good? Did the stock you were thinking about in fact go up?
Didn’t you really know deep down inside that little Jenna would be better off at a school that was less competitive?
You will see the results for yourself. Testing your voice will enable you to trust it. It’s your voice, and when you begin to take action based on what you yourself truly believe, you’ll begin to feel power over your life—and over your money.